Your conclusion is a little too broad, Ija. I had many women before I met my wife. I really lived my life. But when I found her, I realized that there were a number of other things - forming a family, growing up together - that I couldn't do changing girlfriends every month. It is a matter of "killing all wills" (is that an expression in english, too?) before starting to form a family. At least, it was like that for me. Nice article, congratulations!